Become a Member of
The No More Desire Brotherhood

Yes. Joining the community is completely free. You’ll receive access to The 4 Pillars of Recovery course at no cost. Down the road, there will be optional paid offerings inside the No More Desire ecosystem—but there is no obligation to join anything paid by signing up now.

Once you enter your name and email, you’ll be redirected to create a free member account for The No More Desire Brotherhood.

You’ll also receive occasional emails related to recovery, mindset, and community updates. You can unsubscribe at any time.

The Brotherhood is spiritually grounded but not religiously dogmatic. While I personally draw from spiritual principles, everything taught is rooted in psychology, neuroscience, and universal principles like self-awareness, truth, and compassion. Men from a wide range of belief systems—including those who are unsure or non-religious—are welcome here.

No. This community is for men at any stage of the journey—whether you’re just starting to question your relationship with porn, actively struggling, or already experiencing sobriety and wanting deeper growth. The focus is not perfection, but progress and understanding.

No—and that’s intentional.

Accountability has its place, but the Brotherhood is not built on pressure, shame, or “checking in” out of fear. Instead, it focuses on:

• Understanding the root causes of addiction

• Regulating the nervous system and emotions

• Building identity, purpose, and connection

Many men find that when these foundations are in place, accountability becomes far less necessary.

Many programs focus almost entirely on stopping behavior.

The No More Desire Brotherhood focuses on why the behavior exists in the first place—and how to build a life that no longer requires escape.

This approach integrates:

• Emotional regulation and parts work

• Dopamine and nervous system health

• Physical well-being

• Healthy masculinity and relational connection

• Self-awareness as the foundation of recovery

No. This community is supportive and educational, not a substitute for therapy, professional counseling, or medical care. That said, many men find that the tools, language, and support they receive here greatly complement therapy or coaching they’re already engaged in.

As much or as little as you choose. The resources are designed to be practical and approachable. You don’t need hours per day to benefit. Many men engage for just a few minutes at a time and still experience meaningful shifts.

You’re not broken. Most men fail not because they lack discipline, but because they’ve been given incomplete models of recovery. This community exists precisely for men who feel stuck, discouraged, or burned out on fighting themselves. You don’t have to believe this will work. Just be willing to approach recovery differently.

If this resonates, the next step is simple: Click the "Join Now" button, then enter your name and email to join the online community. You’ll receive immediate access to the community and 4 Pillars online course. I look forward to seeing you in there!