Client Success Stories

Real Men Experiencing Successful Recovery

John

"I spent many years in denial about my problem, blind to how my actions and behavior hurt myself and those around me. I had tried traditional therapists in the past, but none provided the solutions or tools I needed to overcome my addiction on a day-to-day basis. Jake, however, directly relates to what I am going through, and it gave me comfort to know that I am not alone in my struggles and that I can overcome my addiction. He has given me the tools and support I needed to get through some of the most difficult times of my life. It has truly been life-changing. I have been sober 7 months now. I have strengthened my relationships with my spouse, children, and friends. I am more present with those around me, more mindful of my own emotions, and am beginning to take back control of my life."

Victor

Working with Jake changed the course of my life. Today, I’m approaching a full year of sobriety (one day at a time) and I can honestly say I wouldn’t be here without him.

Finding his program felt like an answer to prayers. Not just for guidance, but for someone who truly sees you. From day one, it became clear I hadn’t just signed up for coaching. I had found a brother, someone who listened without judgment, who gently called out what needed work, and who constantly pointed me toward self-compassion and purposeful growth.

Jake has an incredible gift: he sees straight to the heart of the issue and knows how to speak truth in a way that empowers rather than shames. Every session left me feeling lighter, braver, and more hopeful.

I wish every man who feels lost or stuck could experience what I did. Jake doesn’t just coach, he walks with you until you can walk on your own.

Michael

"I struggled for very many years with my addiction, but I have now been sober for six months. Over those many years, I made many attempts to overcome my addiction using only willpower, but those attempts all eventually resulted in relapse...Starting with my very first one-on-one meeting with him, Jake made me feel comfortable and at ease. With compassion, Jake helped me understand the roots of my addiction, and recognize that my addiction was actually a reflection of my core inner goodness. He provided tools and techniques that help one not only achieve and maintain sobriety, but to also become the best version of themselves. Jake also taught the important role that belief in a Higher Power can play in overcoming addiction, which strongly resonated with me."

"I’ve been to therapy before for my addiction and nothing came close to the level of intensive wrap around care that you get from Jake! I would strongly recommend!!"

- Ben

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“When I first started meeting with Jake, I was in a dark place, feeling alone, betrayed, and unworthy. I didn’t think I deserved my family’s support. But as I continued our sessions, I began to see myself and my mistakes differently. With Jake’s guidance and tools, I managed to climb out of the hole I had dug for myself. He taught me strategies to develop new habits and thought patterns, helping me shift my perspective. Instead of dwelling on my flaws and mistakes, he showed me how to view them more positively. Having someone to talk to gave me the courage to share my addiction with my family and gain their support. Much of the happiness and fulfillment I experience now is thanks to Jake.”

Oliver

Tyler

"The program gave me a complete view of what drives addiction — not just the surface symptoms... What makes No More Desire truly unique is its multifaceted approach...One of the most valuable elements for me has been the one-on-one coaching sessions. It was refreshing to have someone who genuinely understands what I’m walking through — someone I could be honest and vulnerable with. Jake has walked this path himself, and he practices what he teaches. He isn’t stagnant either — he continues to grow, refine, and improve his program...For the first time, I feel a real sense of freedom from addiction. It’s like a huge burden has finally been lifted."

Working with Jake has completely changed my perspective on life, and has helped me stay sober for over 5 months now. For the first time in years I feel fully connected, in harmony with myself and the principles I believe, but more importantly, at peace with who I am. Jake's ability to connect and relate are unmatched, and I would leave every session feeling like my eyes had been opened to a new level of understanding on life that changed my self-talk, my relationship with my spouse and my ability to connect with my children. Every lesson in the program felt incrementally tailored to my needs, and were exactly the building blocks I needed to be able to live and have a sobriety lifestyle and mindset.

Gabe

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Jake has given my recovery new life

"Jake has given my recovery new life! I've been in and out of recovery for 16 years, struggling to stay sober from pornography and feeling stuck. Jake has created a program that gives me structure and accountability. The material he uses and how he has organized it, along with the daily exercises, has given me a fresh perspective, which I’m finding valuable in helping me develop a recovery mindset. I no longer feel stuck, and I'm filled with hope and motivation for the first time in years."

- Marc

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"Having a porn addiction doesn't make you bad, immoral, or perverted. It just means you have some skills to discover. Practice them each day, and eventually porn addiction will be a distant memory."

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"Before joining No More Desire, I tried to stop my porn addiction on my own, but I struggled to make real progress. I would stop for a few days but then get hooked again and relapse very quickly. Jake’s program was different. The design of the program makes it highly probable you will break the neurological addiction by doing the daily exercises. The gap between my relapses started widening, from days to weeks. Not only that, the grip of the addiction on me has gotten softer. I no longer feel weak. Jake was so helpful, especially during the hard times where I had to have hard conversations with my wife. I believed that my sexual impulses and their frequency were natural, and that surrendering to them was natural and was the only way to release them. Now, I know that good habits, good self understanding, and good thinking make me grounded and focused, and give me healthy, sexual power."

S. A.