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1-on-1 Intensive Recovery

Develop the recovery mindset and lifestyle you need to quit pornography for good. Find success through...

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Weekly 1-on-1 Sessions 

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Daily Check-ins & Accountability

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Hands-On, Practical Exercises

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Tailored & Personalized Recovery Plan

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Structured, Step-by-Step Recovery Program

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Recovery Mindset & Lifestyle Focused

What Has Porn Taken From You?

  • Satisfaction & peace in your relationships

  • Trust & connection in sexual intimacy

  • Interest in hobbies & pursuits you once loved

  • Motivation, focus & concentration for work & life

  • The ability to stay present & in the moment

  • Social confidence & enjoying interactions

  • Feeling proud to be & loving who you are

  • The ability to look in your wife’s eyes with joy

Find Out How You Can Get it All Back

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My Approach

Addiction is just a symptom of underlying conditions. In my Intensive Recovery Program, you'll develop a recovery mindset and lifestyle so you can can quit porn for good.

Shame-Free Solutions

Personalized Plans & Goals

Mindset & Lifestyle Changes

Psychological Methods Allied with Spiritual Principles

Step-By-Step Habit Change

Assignments & Accountability

Practical. Simple. Actionable.

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"I attribute a lot of my ability to dig deep and find the roots of my problems to Jake Kastleman. He provides training that is very helpful. His curriculum is centered on positivity and puts my focus on the fact that I am a being of light and goodness and that my mistakes don’t define me. I have really enjoyed all the empathy and positive direction received in my communications with Jake. Shame is removed and recovery is gained by my new found ability to awake with a smile and positive mindset each day with newly discovered tools to overcome this problem in my life." 

- Doug

What You'll Experience in the Intensive Recovery Program

Weekly 1-on-1 Sessions 

  • Don't waste time focusing on the addictive behavior itself. Instead, transform habits so you can prevent porn cravings.

  • Work with a professional who has personal experience quitting porn. Feel understood, and receive tailored instruction.

  • I don't use shame, fear, or willpower tactics. We'll focus on long-term lifestyle and mindset changes that work.

  • Understand the exact reasons for your addiction & what specific things actions you need to take using applied exercises.

Hands-On Practical Exercises

  • These psychological methods work long-term. You'll use them everyday, so you can overcome porn addiction for good.

  • Train your mind to become positive and resilient in the face of difficult emotions. 

  • Stop fighting cravings for porn and instead learn to diffuse them by getting to the root cause. 

  • Heal important relationships using applied methods and principles. 

Structured Recovery Program

  • Follow a step-by-step program that takes you through each stage of recovery. Stop watching porn by transforming your spiritual, mental, physical, and relational well-being.

  • Understand the causes of addiction and practical methods allied with spiritual principles to overcome each one. 

  • Learn the 3 forms of mental resistance that fuel addiction & the 3 forms of mental acceptance that empower recovery.

  • Implement proven recovery tools, including the Sobriety Story, Sobriety Schedule, Recovery Beliefs, Relationship Manual, Mental Mantras, Harm Reduction, and more.

Daily Check-ins & Accountability

  • Don't waste time with "So, how's recovery going?" talk therapy. When we meet, I'll already know how you're doing from you check-ins, and I'll have solutions ready for you.

  • Follow structured, daily check-ins that teach you a new way of thinking. Retrain your brain using mindfulness strategies.

  • This cutting-edge psychological process replaces negative ways of thinking with new, positive ways of thinking.

Personalized Recovery Plan

  • We'll develop a personalized plan that fits your needs using iron-clad recovery principles and proven exercises.

  • Determine exactly what's leading to your porn addiction. Develop deep understanding for yourself & work with me step-by-step to overcome personal obstacles.

  • Focus on spiritual, mental, physical & relationship solutions. Don't waste time simply trying to quit porn. Instead, transform your lifestyle & mindset so you no longer crave it.

Recovery Mindset & Lifestyle Focused

  • Learn to lose your cravings for addiction. I'll teach you the root causes of addiction, and the exact solutions for recovery.

  • My program is structured and practical. This is not talk therapy. You and I will work on REAL, long-term solutions based in psychological principles & habit-replacement.

  • Build your foundation & forge your recovery tools. I'll give you everything you need to stay sober for good. 

  • Carry these skills into the rest of life. This isn't a temporary intervention. It's a structured process to develop strong, rooted, life-long recovery.

This is Different From Anything You've Tried Before

  • I don’t just teach my clients how to quit porn. I teach them how to develop a recovery mindset and lifestyle so that eventually they have no more desire for porn. 

  • I don’t focus on the behavior of porn use itself. I focus on the mental, emotional & relationship factors behind the porn use. Solve those, and the cravings go away.

  • You and I get to the root of your specific challenges, and address them directly using hands-on, practical solutions that last a lifetime.

  • I don’t just give my clients techniques or theories. I give them the exact methods I use myself every day to stay clean after a decade of porn addiction. 

It's Time. Take Back Your Life.

How to Succeed in the Program

What You'll Need...

30 minutes/day

Humility & Teachability

Commitment to Learn & Grow

Consistent Effort

“Jake Kastleman has been a huge help in my recovery journey. He encourages positive behavior patterns and has always been a support to me. It is common to find coaches whose cup is already full, not with Jake. He is still humble and always searching for ways to make improvements, both in his own recovery and for those he works with.” 
- Adam
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About Jake

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Years in Mental Health

I've worked for years with clients in various capacities in the mental health field. I use hands-on, practical methods to help my clients get rid of porn addiction.

Intensive Recovery Coach

As an Intensive Recovery Coach, I help men across the U.S. quit porn. My program is actionable and straightforward, teaching you how to transform your mindset and lifestyle. You'll develop new, long-lasting habits through cutting-edge psychological methods and practical exercises that work.

I've Been There

Work with someone who gets it. I've walked the walk. I know what it's like to struggle in addiction and feel hopeless, and I know exactly how to break free and overcome porn addiction for good.

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Ready to Break Free From Porn?

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