No. This program is for men who know pornography has too much power in their life and want a real path forward.No. This program is for men who know pornography has too much power in their life and want a real path forward.Some men come in after years of heavy use. Others are functioning well on the outside but feel stuck, ashamed, distracted, emotionally shut down, or disconnected from God, their wife, or their purpose. Some men who are addicted use porn everyday. Others only use once every couple of months. And everything in between. The real question is, how is it affecting you?You do not need to hit “rock bottom” to start recovery. You just need to be honest that what you have been doing is not working, and you need a change.Some men who are addicted use porn everyday. Others only use once every couple of months. The real question is, how is it affecting you?You do not need to hit “rock bottom” to start recovery. You just need to be honest that what you have been doing is not working.

Most men have already tried on their own. They’ve tried harder. They have made promises. Deleted apps. Installed filters. Prayed. Journaled. Confessed. Started over again and again.Those things can be helpful, but they are usually not enough by themselves.In this program, we build a full recovery ecosystem around you. You learn how to understand your triggers, regulate cravings, build daily structure, communicate honestly, set boundaries, and develop a lifestyle that supports sobriety long-term.

Because lasting recovery takes time to build.You are not just trying to stop a behavior. You are retraining your brain, changing your routines, learning emotional regulation, rebuilding honesty, and developing a new way of responding to stress, loneliness, boredom, resentment, and sexual desire.Seven months gives us time to build the foundation, practice the skills, work through setbacks, and help recovery become more natural and repeatable. Some men progress quickly enough that 3-5 months is enough to gain sobriety that lasts. Others require longer than 7 months. Either way is okay! Everyone moves at a different pace, and having patience with yourself is important. I have men commit to 7 months as this is enough time to build something real. But some may need longer. We can adjust your plan accordingly.

The goal of this program is real, sustainable sobriety from porn.That being said, recovery is not magic, and I will not promise a result that removes your ownership from the process.What I can say is this: if you show up honestly, do the work, follow the system, and stay engaged, you will have a clear path, strong support, practical tools, and a much deeper understanding of how to live free. The habits you build here can (and should) follow you for a lifetime.

Then you are exactly the kind of man this program was built to help.Repeated relapse does not mean you are hopeless. It usually means you have been missing key parts of the recovery process.You don’t need more shame or self-control. You don’t simply need enough commitment. You need structure, training, accountability, emotional tools, and someone helping you see the pattern clearly.We work with the pattern, not just the behavior.

No. This is recovery coaching.I am not acting as your therapist, diagnosing mental health conditions, or replacing clinical care. This program is focused on mentorship, recovery structure, skill-building, accountability, education, and practical implementation.Many men benefit from therapy alongside coaching, especially if there is trauma or serious mental health concerns. Coaching and therapy can work very well together when necessary.

No More Desire is grounded in a Christian worldview, and faith is welcome here.I talk openly about God, integrity, repentance, grace, spiritual growth, and becoming the kind of man you are called to be. I also consistently focus on neuroscience and psychological/behavioral practices and habits. I like to bring both together as one.I work with men from different backgrounds. You do not have to be in the same place spiritually to benefit from the program. I will respect where you are while still bringing the depth, honesty, and spiritual seriousness this work deserves.

No.We will be honest, but we do not need to be graphic, and you only need to share what you choose to. Recovery requires truth, not unnecessary detail.We will talk about patterns, triggers, emotions, beliefs, routines, boundaries, and choices. The goal is to understand what is happening underneath the behavior so you can respond differently.You will not be shamed, humiliated, or pressured into sharing more than is helpful.

That is normal.Most men feel embarrassed at first. Porn addiction often grows in secrecy, shame, and isolation. Bringing it into the light can feel uncomfortable, but it is also where healing starts.You will be met with honesty, respect, and understanding. I have been there myself, and I have helped hundreds of men walk through this.You are not walking into judgment. You are walking into support and direction.

Every situation is different. Some men come into the program with their wife already aware. Others are trying to figure out how to become honest, responsible, and prepared for difficult conversations.We will not rush disclosure recklessly, and we will not build recovery on more hiding.Part of the work is learning how to move toward honesty with wisdom, humility, and care.

Porn recovery often has a major impact on marriage because it affects trust, emotional presence, communication, sexuality, and connection.This program is focused on your recovery, but as you become more honest, regulated, present, and grounded, your relationships can begin to change too.That said, your wife’s healing and marriage repair are not things you can control or force. Your job is to become a safer, more honest, more consistent man.That is where we start.

This program is still for you. While my audience is primarily married men, I have worked with many single men over the years, and multiple have had great success. Porn affects far more than marriage. It affects confidence, motivation, focus, emotional health, spiritual connection, dating, sense of attraction, discipline, and your ability to live with direction.Recovery is not just about becoming a better husband someday. It is about becoming a more whole, honest, strong, and connected man now.

The 1-on-1 sessions are where we look closely at your actual life.We talk through your patterns, recent wins, setbacks, triggers, emotions, routines, relationships, boundaries, and next steps. I teach principles and practices, help you process what is happening, and give you specific assignments to work on between sessions.I also have a 7 month path for you to follow with step-by-step course material and specific recovery exercises. You will follow a deliberate, structured plan.These sessions are practical, personal, and direct. You will not be left guessing what to do next.

Weekly group meetings (included in all 1-on-1 coaching plans) give you support from other men who understand the fight.You will hear what other men are learning, ask questions, receive guidance, practice recovery skills, and be reminded that you are not the only one working through this.A lot of men are surprised by how helpful the group becomes. Isolation feeds addiction. Honest brotherhood overcomes it. The culture in these groups is powerful, and then men in my program look forward to these meetings.

That is completely normal.You do not have to show up perfectly. You do not have to impress anyone. You do not have to share every detail of your story right away. Some men just come and listen at first. That’s just fine!The group is not about performance. It is about honesty, encouragement, brotherhood, and learning from men who are also doing the work.Most men feel nervous at first. Then they realize how much strength comes from not doing this alone, and how others really get it!

Most men should plan for their coaching session or group meeting, plus time for coursework, reflection, and daily recovery practices.This is not meant to overwhelm your life. It is meant to help you build a recovery lifestyle inside your real life.The goal is not to give you busywork. The goal is to help you practice the skills that actually change your direction.

That’s great! I have men join frequently who are.Many men come into coaching while already working with a therapist, accountability partner, church leader, group, or other recovery support. This program can give you more structure, personalization, and practical direction. We can work with what is already helping you and clarify what is missing.

Filters and accountability software can be helpful, but they are not the whole solution.A filter may slow you down. It cannot heal the emotional pattern underneath the behavior. It cannot teach you how to process cravings, communicate honestly, or live with integrity when no one is watching.We may use tools like that as part of your boundary system, but we will not confuse the tool with recovery itself.

Then we learn from it.Relapse is serious, but it does not have to become a shame spiral. We look at what happened, what led up to it, what was missing, what needs to change, and how to respond with ownership.The goal is not to pretend setbacks never happen nor to be perfectionistic. The goal is to stop repeating the same cycle without understanding it.

Yes. Your story will be treated with respect and care.This is sensitive work, and I take that seriously. The goal is to create a place where you can be honest without being shamed.The group environment also has a culture of respect, privacy, and responsibility.

The best next step is to book a free discovery call.On that call, we will talk through your situation, what you have tried, what you are looking for, and whether this program is the right fit. I have multiple options.You do not need to have everything figured out before reaching out. You just need to be willing to take the next step.

They are the same thing, referred to by different names. The Academy includes courses, exercises, and group coaching.

Book a discovery call.We will talk through where you are, what you need, and whether intensive 1-on-1 or group recovery coaching is the right path for you.If it is a fit, I will walk you through the next steps. If it is not, I will tell you that honestly too.Book A Discovery Call