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How to Provide Emotional Safety, Empathy, Connection and Rebuild Trust After Betrayal | Become the Husband Your Marriage Needs (with Larry Hagner)
Loving your wife doesn't automatically mean she feels seen, heard, or safe with you. In my conversation with Larry Hagner of The Dad Edge, we explore why so many men try to fix their wives' feelings instead of truly connecting. We'll discuss practical skills for emotional validation, listening, and creating safety in marriage—and how these same skills can help men recovering from pornography addiction become more emotionally present, trustworthy, and connected husbands.

Jake Kastleman
59 min read


How to Heal Your Marriage After Porn Addiction | Childhood Trauma, Betrayal & the Power of Empathy with Matt Wenger
Quitting pornography may end the behavior, but it doesn't automatically heal the wounds of betrayal. In this conversation with Matt Wenger, we explore how childhood trauma, emotional avoidance, and unhealthy relationship patterns affect marriage—and how genuine empathy, personal responsibility, and emotional maturity can help rebuild trust and create lasting connection.

Jake Kastleman
63 min read


Porn Addiction and Emotional Numbness: How Disconnection from Your Body Keeps You Stuck in Addiction
Discover how porn addiction creates emotional numbness—and how reconnecting with your body restores feeling, empathy, purpose, and long-term recovery.

Jake Kastleman
29 min read
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