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The Unconscious Mind Behind Porn Addiction: Shame, Generational Trauma, Mother & Father Wounds, and Healing at the Root (with Michael H. Hallett)
Porn addiction isn’t about sex. It’s about shame, trauma, and unmet needs. Learn how to heal the unconscious patterns driving relapse.

Jake Kastleman
50 min read


You Don’t “Need” Release | Sexual Energy, Nervous System Regulation, and the Hidden Psychology Behind Male Compulsion
Think you “need” sexual release? Discover the neuroscience of porn addiction, dopamine, and nervous system regulation—and how to control sexual urges without suppression.

Jake Kastleman
28 min read


Porn Addiction Recovery Without Shame: Stop Hating Yourself and Start Healing
If porn addiction recovery makes you feel ashamed or broken, this article explains why—and shows a healthier, neuroscience-backed path to healing without self-hatred or suppression.

Jake Kastleman
35 min read


The Beliefs You Must Let Go of Before You Can Quit Porn | Why Painful Emotions and Unconscious Beliefs Are the Real Trailheads to Sobriety
You can’t quit porn by “thinking positive.” Learn the belief-release process that helps you move through triggers, clear old shame, and build unshakable sobriety—step by step.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Men, Emotions, and Porn Addiction: Reclaiming Masculinity Without Shame
Porn addiction isn’t about weakness or sex—it’s about emotions. Learn how men can reclaim healthy masculinity and overcome porn addiction without shame.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Doing vs. Being: The Missing Key to Porn Recovery
Discover how constant busyness and distraction fuel porn addiction—and how restoring balance between doing and being can rewire your brain, rebuild focus, and reconnect you to presence.

Jake Kastleman
31 min read


Breaking the Dopamine Cycle: Tech Addiction, Porn, and the War for Your Attention
Discover how dopamine, distraction, and tech addiction rewire your brain—and how presence and focus can help you overcome porn addiction for good.

Jake Kastleman
32 min read


Mindfulness Over Willpower: Ending Porn Addiction Through Self-Awareness and Compassion — A Buddhist Approach to Healing Addiction and Shame
Discover how mindfulness—not willpower—can help you end porn addiction, release shame, and live with greater self-awareness, compassion, and freedom.

Jake Kastleman
50 min read


Mastering Your Emotions to Recover from Porn, Bond with Your Wife, and Defuse Relational Conflict
Learn how emotional intelligence can help you recover from porn, master your emotions, and transform marriage conflict into deeper love and connection.

Jake Kastleman
29 min read


Men’s Guide to Stopping Porn Urges: Mindfulness, Parts Work, and the RAIL Method
Struggling with porn cravings? Discover how to stop porn urges with the RAIL Method—a step-by-step framework using mindfulness, parts work, and masculine leadership to transform cravings into strength and freedom.

Jake Kastleman
34 min read


Heal Your Body, Heal Your Desire: How Foods Shape Your Recovery
Discover how food fuels cravings, anxiety, and relapse—and how nutrition can help you overcome porn addiction, stabilize mood, and build lasting recovery.

Jake Kastleman
28 min read


The Porn Trap: Why Pain, Not Pleasure, Keeps You Addicted
Porn addiction isn’t about pleasure—it’s about pain. Discover how to overcome porn by healing emotional wounds and building real connection that lasts.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


You Are Not Your Urge: How Urge Surfing Helps Men Overcome Porn Addiction Without Willpower
Discover how urge surfing helps you sit with cravings instead of fighting them, empowering you to overcome porn addiction without relying on willpower. This article explains the technique, how to apply it, and how to make it even more effective with other tools from recovery coach Jake Kastleman.

Jake Kastleman
4 min read
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