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Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife
You feel broken—ashamed of your body, afraid in the bedroom. But porn doesn’t get the final word. Learn how to overcome porn addiction and rebuild intimacy.

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


Porn and Pixels: The Hidden Link Between Video Games and Porn Addiction
Are porn and video games feeding the same addiction? Discover the neuroscience and psychology behind how both hijack your brain’s reward system—and how to break free from the cycle. This powerful episode explores the overlap between gaming and porn addiction, offering practical strategies to reset your brain and reclaim your focus.

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


Why She’s Pissed Off & Turned Off—and How to Fix It | This Masculine Blueprint Is Helping Men End Porn Addiction and Save Their Marriages
She’s pissed off. She’s turned off. You’re lost and escaping into porn. Discover how GS Youngblood’s Masculine Blueprint can help you lead, connect, and heal.

Jake Kastleman
41 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read


You Are Not Your Urge: How Urge Surfing Helps Men Overcome Porn Addiction Without Willpower
Discover how urge surfing helps you sit with cravings instead of fighting them, empowering you to overcome porn addiction without relying on willpower. This article explains the technique, how to apply it, and how to make it even more effective with other tools from recovery coach Jake Kastleman.

Jake Kastleman
4 min read


How to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal Trauma: 8 Tools That Actually Work
Discover 8 practical tools to rebuild trust after porn addiction and betrayal trauma. Learn how to end secrecy, create safety, and move forward with hope.

Jake Kastleman
45 min read


The #1 Daily Habit That’s Helping My Clients Quit Porn
The surprising key to porn addiction recovery. We break down the science behind why it works and specific, actionable ways to use it in your everyday recovery.

Jake Kastleman
20 min read


How One Man Stayed Sober While Alone and in Pain: What His Story Teaches Us About Porn Addiction Recovery
Discover how one man avoided relapse during surgery and solitude through faith, focus, and daily mindset practices. Learn how to stay sober from porn—even in your toughest moments.

Jake Kastleman
22 min read


Prevent Porn Cravings & Relapse Through Emotional Awareness Techniques | Simple Methods to Slow the Mind & Connect with Others
Learn to prevent porn cravings and relapse by practicing awareness of difficult emotions.

Jake Kastleman
44 min read


Quit Porn Using IFS: A Powerful New Approach to Psychology & Addiction Recovery
What if your brain pushes you towards porn addiction because it’s trying to help you, not hurt you? Discover this secret approach to recover

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


Make Friends with the Addict Part of Your Brain | Quit Porn Using 3 Evidence-based IFS Principles
Use 3 evidence-based IFS principles to quit porn by making friends with the addict part of your brain.

Jake Kastleman
29 min read
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