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Mindfulness Over Willpower: Ending Porn Addiction Through Self-Awareness and Compassion — A Buddhist Approach to Healing Addiction and Shame
Discover how mindfulness—not willpower—can help you end porn addiction, release shame, and live with greater self-awareness, compassion, and freedom.

Jake Kastleman
50 min read


What Your Sexual Fantasies Are Really Trying to Tell You | The Surprising Way to Heal Porn Addiction (with Drew Boa)
Discover what your sexual fantasies really mean—and how facing them with courage and compassion helps you outgrow porn addiction. With Drew Boa.

Jake Kastleman
47 min read


From Stuck to Free: The 2 Recovery Mindset Elements That Most People Overlook
Most men try to quit porn through willpower or fear-based strategies—but it keeps them stuck. Discover the 2 overlooked recovery mindset elements that rewire your brain, lower cravings, and fuel long-term freedom from porn addiction.

Jake Kastleman
23 min read


Why Positive Thinking Isn’t Enough to Beat Porn Addiction—And What Works Instead
Positive thinking won’t help you overcome porn addiction—in fact, it often makes recovery harder. Discover the psychology, neuroscience, and spiritual truth behind why toxic positivity backfires and the proven mindset shift that actually leads to lasting freedom.

Jake Kastleman
25 min read


What Most Recovery Programs Miss | The Inner War That Keeps You Addicted to Porn—And How to End It
Most recovery programs miss the real problem: the inner war. Discover how to end porn addiction by healing your mind—not fighting yourself.

Jake Kastleman
33 min read


The Porn Trap: Why Pain, Not Pleasure, Keeps You Addicted
Porn addiction isn’t about pleasure—it’s about pain. Discover how to overcome porn by healing emotional wounds and building real connection that lasts.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


Why Sex in Marriage Can Trigger Porn Cravings | How to Rewire Your Brain for Healthy, Connected Sex Using Principles of Neuroscience and Faith
Confused why sex with your wife triggers porn cravings? Discover the brain science, faith insights, and real solutions for true intimacy and porn addiction recovery.

Jake Kastleman
63 min read


My Real Rock Bottom—Years After I Got Sober | And How Obsession with Perfection Nearly Ruined My Recovery
Years after quitting porn, I hit true rock bottom—driven by perfectionism, shame, and control. Here’s how real healing finally began.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife
You feel broken—ashamed of your body, afraid in the bedroom. But porn doesn’t get the final word. Learn how to overcome porn addiction and rebuild intimacy.

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read


Addiction, Identity, and the Illusion of Brokenness: Jason Shiers on Childhood Trauma, Secret Shame in Recovery, and What Real Healing Looks Like
Discover how childhood trauma and secret shame shape addiction — and how real healing begins by realizing you were never broken in the first place.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


The #1 Daily Habit That’s Helping My Clients Quit Porn
The surprising key to porn addiction recovery. We break down the science behind why it works and specific, actionable ways to use it in your everyday recovery.

Jake Kastleman
20 min read


How One Man Stayed Sober While Alone and in Pain: What His Story Teaches Us About Porn Addiction Recovery
Discover how one man avoided relapse during surgery and solitude through faith, focus, and daily mindset practices. Learn how to stay sober from porn—even in your toughest moments.

Jake Kastleman
22 min read


Quit Porn Using IFS: A Powerful New Approach to Psychology & Addiction Recovery
What if your brain pushes you towards porn addiction because it’s trying to help you, not hurt you? Discover this secret approach to recover

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


Make Friends with the Addict Part of Your Brain | Quit Porn Using 3 Evidence-based IFS Principles
Use 3 evidence-based IFS principles to quit porn by making friends with the addict part of your brain.

Jake Kastleman
29 min read
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