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Doing vs. Being: The Missing Key to Porn Recovery
Discover how constant busyness and distraction fuel porn addiction—and how restoring balance between doing and being can rewire your brain, rebuild focus, and reconnect you to presence.

Jake Kastleman
31 min read


Raising Kids with Fearless Sexuality: Teaching Sexual Wholeness Without Shame in a Porn-Filled World (with Taylor Chambers)
Learn how fearless, shame-free sexuality helps you and your kids build true integrity and freedom in a porn-filled world. With Jake Kastleman & Taylor Chambers.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


Men’s Guide to Stopping Porn Urges: Mindfulness, Parts Work, and the RAIL Method
Struggling with porn cravings? Discover how to stop porn urges with the RAIL Method—a step-by-step framework using mindfulness, parts work, and masculine leadership to transform cravings into strength and freedom.

Jake Kastleman
34 min read


Why High-Achieving Men Get Addicted to Porn | How Emotional Intensity Drives Cravings—and How to Harness Your Perfectionistic Mind for Lasting Recovery
Discover why high-achieving men are more vulnerable to porn addiction, how emotional intensity fuels cravings, and practical strategies to turn perfectionism into lasting recovery.

Jake Kastleman
35 min read


What Your Sexual Fantasies Are Really Trying to Tell You | The Surprising Way to Heal Porn Addiction (with Drew Boa)
Discover what your sexual fantasies really mean—and how facing them with courage and compassion helps you outgrow porn addiction. With Drew Boa.

Jake Kastleman
47 min read


What Most Recovery Programs Miss | The Inner War That Keeps You Addicted to Porn—And How to End It
Most recovery programs miss the real problem: the inner war. Discover how to end porn addiction by healing your mind—not fighting yourself.

Jake Kastleman
33 min read


The Porn Trap: Why Pain, Not Pleasure, Keeps You Addicted
Porn addiction isn’t about pleasure—it’s about pain. Discover how to overcome porn by healing emotional wounds and building real connection that lasts.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


My Real Rock Bottom—Years After I Got Sober | And How Obsession with Perfection Nearly Ruined My Recovery
Years after quitting porn, I hit true rock bottom—driven by perfectionism, shame, and control. Here’s how real healing finally began.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife
You feel broken—ashamed of your body, afraid in the bedroom. But porn doesn’t get the final word. Learn how to overcome porn addiction and rebuild intimacy.

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read


Addiction, Identity, and the Illusion of Brokenness: Jason Shiers on Childhood Trauma, Secret Shame in Recovery, and What Real Healing Looks Like
Discover how childhood trauma and secret shame shape addiction — and how real healing begins by realizing you were never broken in the first place.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


How One Man Stayed Sober While Alone and in Pain: What His Story Teaches Us About Porn Addiction Recovery
Discover how one man avoided relapse during surgery and solitude through faith, focus, and daily mindset practices. Learn how to stay sober from porn—even in your toughest moments.

Jake Kastleman
22 min read


Quit Porn Using IFS: A Powerful New Approach to Psychology & Addiction Recovery
What if your brain pushes you towards porn addiction because it’s trying to help you, not hurt you? Discover this secret approach to recover

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


Make Friends with the Addict Part of Your Brain | Quit Porn Using 3 Evidence-based IFS Principles
Use 3 evidence-based IFS principles to quit porn by making friends with the addict part of your brain.

Jake Kastleman
29 min read
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