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The Beliefs You Must Let Go of Before You Can Quit Porn | Why Painful Emotions and Unconscious Beliefs Are the Real Trailheads to Sobriety
You can’t quit porn by “thinking positive.” Learn the belief-release process that helps you move through triggers, clear old shame, and build unshakable sobriety—step by step.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Trauma, Porn, and Same-Sex Attraction in Men | Navigating Identity Confusion, Emotional Neglect, and Feeling Like "I Don't Belong"
Porn addiction isn’t about willpower—it’s about pain. Learn how trauma, shame, and isolation shape compulsive porn use and how men can heal at the root.

Jake Kastleman
37 min read


Why You Can’t “Just Stop”: Porn Addiction, Your Nervous System, and Polyvagal Theory Explained
Struggling to stop porn? It’s not a willpower problem—it’s a nervous system problem. Learn how polyvagal theory, trauma healing, and real recovery work.

Jake Kastleman
53 min read


Raising Kids with Fearless Sexuality: Teaching Sexual Wholeness Without Shame in a Porn-Filled World (with Taylor Chambers)
Learn how fearless, shame-free sexuality helps you and your kids build true integrity and freedom in a porn-filled world. With Jake Kastleman & Taylor Chambers.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


The Porn Trap: Why Pain, Not Pleasure, Keeps You Addicted
Porn addiction isn’t about pleasure—it’s about pain. Discover how to overcome porn by healing emotional wounds and building real connection that lasts.

Jake Kastleman
60 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read
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