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What should you do when you discover that your son is masturbating? In this conversation with Sam Jolman, I explore how fathers can respond without creating shame, help boys understand healthy sexuality, and recognize when sexual behavior may be connected with anxiety, self-soothing, pornography, or deeper emotional needs.

Many of us are trying to teach our children a healthier relationship with sexuality than the one we inherited. In my conversation with Sam Jolman, we explore how fathers can talk about sex and porn without shame, understand their own sexual story, and help their children develop sexuality rooted in openness, wisdom, connection, and healthy boundaries.

Discover how IFS and parts work can help men understand porn cravings, heal shame, and recover from pornography addiction with more compassion, clarity, and self-leadership.

Why do so many good men stay stuck in porn addiction? In this article, I break down how silence, shame, secrecy, and hidden pain fuel the cycle—and what real recovery actually requires.

Porn addiction isn’t about willpower—it’s about pain. Learn how trauma, shame, and isolation shape compulsive porn use and how men can heal at the root.