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Heal Your Body, Heal Your Desire: How Foods Shape Your Recovery
Discover how food fuels cravings, anxiety, and relapse—and how nutrition can help you overcome porn addiction, stabilize mood, and build lasting recovery.

Jake Kastleman
28 min read


Why Positive Thinking Isn’t Enough to Beat Porn Addiction—And What Works Instead
Positive thinking won’t help you overcome porn addiction—in fact, it often makes recovery harder. Discover the psychology, neuroscience, and spiritual truth behind why toxic positivity backfires and the proven mindset shift that actually leads to lasting freedom.

Jake Kastleman
25 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read


Addiction, Identity, and the Illusion of Brokenness: Jason Shiers on Childhood Trauma, Secret Shame in Recovery, and What Real Healing Looks Like
Discover how childhood trauma and secret shame shape addiction — and how real healing begins by realizing you were never broken in the first place.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


You Are Not Your Urge: How Urge Surfing Helps Men Overcome Porn Addiction Without Willpower
Discover how urge surfing helps you sit with cravings instead of fighting them, empowering you to overcome porn addiction without relying on willpower. This article explains the technique, how to apply it, and how to make it even more effective with other tools from recovery coach Jake Kastleman.

Jake Kastleman
4 min read


The Neuroscience of Quitting Porn | Build a New Brain By Changing Habit Patterns, Fixing Dopamine, Altering Nutrition, Transforming Identity, and Finding Deeper Meaning
Quitting porn is not about trying hard enough. You could muster all the will in the world and never overcome it. Unless you know how. My conversation today is with George Haymaker . We discuss the neuroscience of quitting porn , how to change habit patterns and rewire your brain . George is an inspiring man with an incredible story. He’s helped many people heal their brains and change their habits for the better. He is a certified neuroscience coach & consultant, and an i

Jake Kastleman
47 min read
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