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From Stuck to Free: The 2 Recovery Mindset Elements That Most People Overlook
Most men try to quit porn through willpower or fear-based strategies—but it keeps them stuck. Discover the 2 overlooked recovery mindset elements that rewire your brain, lower cravings, and fuel long-term freedom from porn addiction.

Jake Kastleman
23 min read


How Negative Thinking Fuels Porn Addiction—Shame, the Brain and the Habit Loop
Discover how negative thinking drives porn addiction, rewires your brain, and keeps you stuck—and the first step to break free for good.

Jake Kastleman
17 min read


Why Sex in Marriage Can Trigger Porn Cravings | How to Rewire Your Brain for Healthy, Connected Sex Using Principles of Neuroscience and Faith
Confused why sex with your wife triggers porn cravings? Discover the brain science, faith insights, and real solutions for true intimacy and porn addiction recovery.

Jake Kastleman
63 min read


Sexual Desire Isn’t Sin | The Conversation Christian Men Are Afraid to Have
Why good men get stuck in the shame-porn cycle—and how to finally break free. A powerful, honest conversation for Christian men ready to heal from porn addiction.

Jake Kastleman
35 min read


My Real Rock Bottom—Years After I Got Sober | And How Obsession with Perfection Nearly Ruined My Recovery
Years after quitting porn, I hit true rock bottom—driven by perfectionism, shame, and control. Here’s how real healing finally began.

Jake Kastleman
43 min read


Self-Inflicted Sexual Trauma of Porn Addiction and Masturbation | Learning to Love Yourself Again So You Can Have a Healthy Sexual Relationship with Your Wife
You feel broken—ashamed of your body, afraid in the bedroom. But porn doesn’t get the final word. Learn how to overcome porn addiction and rebuild intimacy.

Jake Kastleman
24 min read


The Subtle Lies That Keep You Relapsing | Exposing the Mental Traps and False Beliefs That Sabotage Porn Addiction Recovery
What if your relapses are the result of hidden mental traps running the show? In this episode, Jake uncovers the two core parts of your psyche that drive addiction: the inner critic and the escapist. Drawing on IFS therapy, somatic tools, and spiritual insight, you’ll learn how to respond to cravings with presence—not shame—and finally break the cycle.

Jake Kastleman
38 min read


How to Rebuild Trust After Porn Addiction and Betrayal Trauma: 8 Tools That Actually Work
Discover 8 practical tools to rebuild trust after porn addiction and betrayal trauma. Learn how to end secrecy, create safety, and move forward with hope.

Jake Kastleman
45 min read


The Neuroscience of Quitting Porn | Build a New Brain By Changing Habit Patterns, Fixing Dopamine, Altering Nutrition, Transforming Identity, and Finding Deeper Meaning
Quitting porn is not about trying hard enough. You could muster all the will in the world and never overcome it. Unless you know how. My conversation today is with George Haymaker . We discuss the neuroscience of quitting porn , how to change habit patterns and rewire your brain . George is an inspiring man with an incredible story. He’s helped many people heal their brains and change their habits for the better. He is a certified neuroscience coach & consultant, and an i

Jake Kastleman
47 min read
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